Still Making Choices...

 By: Connie J..., October 20, 2025

I speak a lot about choices - because growing up, I didn't realize (long into adulthood) that I really didn't get to make a lot of my own.


I recently went to the Orlando area for a combo "Girl's trip"/family visit, with my bestie. Had a basic list - but wanted it to be unstressful. Score!!! Did you know Cape Canaveral is a whole separate city from where they keep the rockets??! Also, you MIGHT want to have a more specific destination than "The Gulf"??! (enter Clearwater). Naive traveler, but happy!!!



Choices were made, on a daily basis. The closest "touristy" thing we did, was eat at the TGIF by the big Universal sign. Was headed for a tattoo place my nephew suggested, couldn't find it; but via a "Happy Accident" had ANOTHER amazing tattoo experience, with Shae - guess who watched Wicked, while getting another "Wicked infused" tatt??!


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Also, got to see a rocket launched from Texas fly low in the horizon, after dumping it's boosters in the Gulf...while spending time with family. Love a good multi-fer!!!


The choices I made, before we went, enabled me to come home rested, though tired. But, had planned for it by allowing a couple days respite, before returning to work.


Choices matter - whether planning a vacation; or making your everyday life less chaotic.


Are there choices you could make today, RIGHT NOW, to point your life/goals more in the direction YOU would like to go?


We would LOVE to hear any insight you might have. Please contact the ministry via this website; or email us at Ozer Ministries, Inc - ozerministries@att.net; or my email - Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com. Have a good day, and be safe!!! #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #isityou #domesticviolenceiseverywhere #youarenotalone #doyouknow #choicesmatter


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By Connie J... May 18, 2026
...your biggest fear DID happen? ...your biggest fear did NOT happen? ...you took that chance you've been prolonging? ...you took the first step to protect YOURSELF? ... you found out what "they said" WAS true? ...you found out what "they said" was NOT true? ...you took a deep breath, and you WERE able to begin to relax? ...you just "Let Them" do them? ...you "Let Yourself" do you? ...you BELIEVED your life was meant to be lived to the fullest? ...you COULD just be? We would LOVE to hear any insight you might have. Please contact the ministry via this website; or email us at Ozer Ministries, Inc - ozerministries@att.net ; or my email - Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com . Have a good day, and be safe!!! #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #isityou #domesticviolenceiseverywhere #youarenotalone #doyouknow #choicesmatter #whatif #possibilities
By Connie J... May 11, 2026
You ever feel that way, especially in a heated debate? Don't know about you, but when that happens, my brain is usually telling my mouth to hush - but it just keeps on going. Sound familiar? My personal goal has been to practice silence - you do have to pick your battles, because there are people that will argue with you about the sky being blue!!! Also, if you're dealing with a narcissistic person - you will not win. So, depending on the relationship - do you value being right, or value that relationship? Choices must always be made; and it takes contemplation BEFORE you're in a "battle". What are YOUR thoughts on this? We would LOVE to hear any insight you might have. Please contact the ministry via this website; or email us at Ozer Ministries, Inc - ozerministries@att.net ; or my email - Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com . Have a good day, and be safe!!! #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #isityou #domesticviolenceiseverywhere #youarenotalone #doyouknow #choicesmatter #needtoberight #think
By Connie J... May 4, 2026
Regarding my word for 2026 - Building - I have been watching YouTube videos, every morning, evening and on my lunch breaks. Covering everything from building wealth in Retirement with Warren Buffet - to growing my life-skills with Mel Robbins, and her variety of guests on her podcasts. I am seeking my life "what next", for when I plan to retire within the next 5 years. While on this quest, everything I take in, I glean a little bit. Learning things the "traditional way" - via formal education, has NEVER been strong suit. I have actually been sharing some of what I've been learning with people I'm around every day - and it's coming out making sense. Normally, that only happens when I write, and correct, etc. Who knows where this will go - I'm going to just keep learning this new information; and blending it with things I have always known, because of what I've been through in my life. Stay tuned...what's next??! We would LOVE to hear any insight you might have. Please contact the ministry via this website; or email us at Ozer Ministries, Inc - ozerministries@att.net ; or my email - Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com . Have a good day, and be safe!!! #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #isityou #domesticviolenceiseverywhere #youarenotalone #doyouknow #choicesmatter building #learning #keepgrowing #whatisnext
By Connie J... April 27, 2026
It's hard, sometimes, to remember there are a MINIMUM of two sides to every story. When you factor in the truth, the incredibly creative fiction a mind can come up with, plus there is each individual's perspective - any situation can get blown out of proportion so fast, it's not even funny!!! Sometimes, the best thing a person can do is step back, close your mouth, and wait for the smoke to clear. It's hard to do - but if you don't, it can evolve to even bigger problems than were there, to begin with. What do YOU think??? We would LOVE to hear any insight you might have. Please contact the ministry via this website; or email us at Ozer Ministries, Inc - ozerministries@att.net ; or my email - Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com . Have a good day, and be safe!!! #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #isityou #domesticviolenceiseverywhere #youarenotalone #doyouknow #choicesmatter
By Connie J... April 20, 2026
...so difficult??! I have mentioned that 2025, was a year of struggle; though I had one, of two of the BEST vacations, in my life. I spent over half the year trying to "start up", again; based on internal focus and structure that I had been building for roughly 10 years. FINALLY, after struggling for months - the words, "Start Over" appeared. The good news, is, that I wasn't starting over at ground zero. I was able to lay out a plan - it takes a minute (or seven), or at least 30 days of consistency, to build a good habit. I will let you know when I've arrived. We would LOVE to hear any insight you might have. Please contact the ministry via this website; or email us at Ozer Ministries, Inc - ozerministries@att.net ; or my email - Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com . Have a good day, and be safe!!! #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #isityou #domesticviolenceiseverywhere #youarenotalone #doyouknow #choicesmatter
By Connie J... April 13, 2026
...your thought processes can give you a WHOLE NEW perspective on life. One example, "Why does everything bad happen to me??!"; maybe change to, "Is there some life-lesson I am supposed to be learning from all of these things that seem to keep happening to me?" Another reframe could be, "Are things happening to me because of choices I keep making, over and over?" Basically, reframing is asking yourself questions in a more productive way. It breaks that negative thought-loop, and makes a path to move forward out of that stuck feeling. The goal is NOT to ignore your feelings; or just wish they would go away. Your feelings are ALWAYS valid - but sometimes it's the shade of light in which you see them. Reframing can change that "tone/color pallet". What do YOU think? Can you see just one thought process in your life, that could use a little "reframing"? We would LOVE to hear any insight you might have. Please contact the ministry via this website; or email us at Ozer Ministries, Inc - ozerministries@att.net ; or my email - Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com . Have a good day, and be safe!!! #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #isityou #domesticviolenceiseverywhere #youarenotalone #doyouknow #choicesmatter
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