Crawling Downhill..

 By: Connie J..., December 17, 2024

Sounds crazy, right??!


But, if you think about it, many people are doing just that. They're working so hard to MAKE their lives, that they're missing out on so much LIVING.


I have done that in the past—and honestly, it could happen again, at any given moment—so I must be aware of it all the time, and when I realize it's gone awry, work to fix it ASAP!!!


We get soooooooo wrapped up "things." Take a moment and think about what your "things" could be. A lot usually involves filling your wants as opposed to your needs.


One thing that helps keep me, well, "grounded," if you will, is practicing being content—whatever my situation happens to be at that exact moment, I stop and realize how much I'm struggling.


That's the time to step back and take a HARD look at what my focus is. If you wear glasses, you TOTALLY understand the minute you don't wear them at the proper time—your focus goes whacko!!!


Keeping focused on what you need to do can make all the difference. I know when I lose my "structure," chaos ensues, and it's not until I get back to it that I feel calmer about, well, everything—even the chaos!!!


Can you think of any situations from the past, or even in your present, that you are "Crawling Downhill"??!


What changes do you need to/can you make right now to get back to where you NEED to be? That first step can make all the difference...


Thank you, have a good day, and be safe...


#beaware #growinto2025 ##domesticviolenceiseverywhere #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #isityou

everybodyknowsomebody #besafe


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