What Do You NEED??!
By: Connie J..., October 27, 2026
For over half of my life, I was a chronic people-pleaser. Still happens, periodically; but my recovery time is getting faster.
However, many years, if you would've asked me what I needed, that stare would have been soooooo blank.
Ironically, I was still spoiled with what I wanted, by family members, etc. Weird, huh??!
But my needs were buried so deep, and were actually so simple. I wanted to be loved for who I was.
Not for my accomplishments or abilities - just for my very existence.
I now have that. I kind of command it. If you cannot do that, bye-bye.
I no longer have to be a performer, or to get any kind of adulation.
(Btw, when I Googled the word, adulation, seeing the synonyms and antonyms were a little horrifying to me - but made a lot of things make sense, life defining. Wow!!!)
So, again, I ask the question - What do you NEED??!
What are YOUR thoughts? We would LOVE to hear any insight you might have. Please contact the ministry via this website; or email us at Ozer Ministries, Inc - ozerministries@att.net; or my email - Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com. Have a good day, and be safe!!! #ENDtheSILENCEofVIOLENCE #isityou #domesticviolenceiseverywhere
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