Domestic Violence Awareness

Oct. 22, 2022

Practical. Profitable.  And it NEVER "hits" who you're aiming at. It really IS a waste of your time and energy.

Regardless of the abuse you have had in your life, you should try and focus on being grateful you're still here, for one.

Am NOT saying that legal action shouldn't be taken on a perpetrator, either. Always do what you can/need to do - your safety IS paramount.

I, personally, am a firm believer in "what goes around, comes around"; and "payback" isn't part of my "toolkit".

I, also, think this is for more "down the road", when you are abke to move on from your abuse, and actually able to process what happened. You, and only you, will know when it's time.

Until then, do what you need to get through each day.

Have a good day, and be safe... #oneinfour #ithappenstomentoo #dviseverywhere #domesticviolence

*October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Please share this post, no matter what month it is, to help get the word out. The Victim has to make the choice - but, "What If..." they read something you sent them, and it just "clicks"?

*I share a "What If..." post, on the first post of every month, and I would love the opportunity to share YOUR "what ifs". Please send your "What If..." ideas to Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com; or through Ozer, at the website or email, ozerministries@att.net. 

Oct. 8, 2022

...you notice the people around you that seem like things just "aren't quite what they seem"?

...you look at that co-worker that is always talking about their significant other, and speak up and ask if they are a Victim?

...you mention Domestic Violence, and look into the eyes of the ones you're speaking to, and see a flicker of "recognition"?

...you wear a purple ribbon, and someone asks you what it represents?

...you look back on your life, and you realize that you were a Victim, as a child, and that's the underlying reason for your "relationship issues"?

...just opening your mouth could help ONE person?

...you get the purple hair extensions, and someone asks, "Why purple?" (see previous posting for details)

...you decide to walk in the local walk... (Columbiana County, OH info - "Take Back the Night Walk" - Th, October 13, 6pm @Christina Center - 115 Washington St, Lisbon, OH)

Have a good day, and be safe... #oneinfour #ithappenstomentoo #dviseverywhere #domesticviolence

*October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Please share this post, no matter what month it is, to help get the word out. The Victim has to make the choice - but, "What If..." they read something you sent them, and it just "clicks"?

*I share a "What If..." post, on the first post of every month, and I would love the opportunity to share YOUR "what ifs". Please send your "What If..." ideas to Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com; or through Ozer, at the website or email, ozerministries@att.net. 

Oct. 5, 2022

If you're local, check it out - if you aren't, maybe give it a go, wherever you are!!! Awareness is key...

Sep. 30, 2022

When I first became aware of my "leftovers" from being raised in a Domestic Violence situation, plus; I wanted to change THE world.

As I dug deeper into my healing, I learned that to make a difference in THE world, I have to get MY world together, first.

I had to deal with MY issues, and allow myself to heal.

So yes, even if you have children, you have to take care of your healing, first - every airline boarding tutorial speaks specifically to parents, regarding an in-air emergency, and the oxygen masks.

You are instructed to make sure you get YOUR mask on, securely, before assisting your child with theirs. The moral of the story, is, if you pass out, you're no good to assist anyone.

This is a good thing to remember in life, also.

Have a good day, and be safe... #listen #ibelieveyou #doyouhear

*October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Please share this post, no matter what month it is, to help get the word out. The Victim has to make the choice - but, "What If..." they read something you sent them, and it just "clicks"?

*I share a "What If..." post, on the first post of every month, and I would love the opportunity to share YOUR "what ifs". Please send your "What If..." ideas to Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com; or through Ozer, at the website or email, ozerministries@att.net. 

Sep. 28, 2022

Normally, when people think about letting something/someone go - they get caught up in all the negative that is usually associated with that process - and I'm not just talking about Domestic Violence.

There IS a positive side to it, also; and this is where you need to focus, to begin to heal.

Yes, you are letting go of someone/something you love - but you have to weigh the cost of NOT letting go.

Does this sound familiar in your life?

Have a good day, and be safe... #listen #ibelieveyou #doyouhear

*October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Please share this post, no matter what month it is, to help get the word out. The Victim has to make the choice - but, "What If..." they read something you sent them, and it just "clicks"?

*I share a "What If..." post, on the first post of every month, and I would love the opportunity to share YOUR "what ifs". Please send your "What If..." ideas to Connie J... - beamererin@yahoo.com; or through Ozer, at the website or email, ozerministries@att.net.